Jesus did not debate. He focused on teaching those who were open to learning. If someone wasn't open to learning, He would give a pointed response or ask a few question to discern the situation and level of understanding, but He did not stand toe-to-toe and volley back and forth with them. I do not debate. I do not enjoy debates. I do not enjoy the contention and conflict it invokes. I not enjoy conflict and try very hard to avoid it. This does not mean I am always successful or that I am not willing to stand my ground when a situation arises, but I do not enjoy the feelings that conflict and debate create. I feel there are far better uses for my time, like by finding ways to serve, help, and comfort others who are in need. This is what brings me joy.